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rootbeer1 ([personal profile] rootbeer1) wrote2006-01-21 03:50 pm

The days grow short

OK, OK, we're getting my brother and his wife a real housewarming present, maybe a set of Fiestaware and a bottle of hooch that we can drink while we're visiting. And I won't mention his broken disco light present to us unless he complains about our present, or if we get really drunk on the hooch.

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From about age 10 on, I had a tradition in my family of making pizza on Friday nights. This would give my mom a break from cooking, plus giving me a meal of a food I loved. (Plus, it started out as the perfect accompaniment to my Friday night slate of TV shows -- Brady Bunch, Partridge Family, Love American Style, etc.) I made the dough myself -- basically a yeast bread, which I refined over the years, sometimes adding a bit of rye flour, sometimes adding some Italian herbs, etc. I kept up this tradition until I went away to college, and then started it again when I was living on my own, since home-made pizza seemed a pleasant capper to the workweek, even if I was just making it for myself.

I haven't made it much in recent years, but [livejournal.com profile] qbear and I are starting to diet again on Tuesday, so last night was one of my last chances to keep to the Friday night tradition for a while. I made the dough in the afternoon, and let it rise while I went off to physical therapy.

mmm mmm good

On the left, a sausage-and-bacon pizza with black olives, onion and mushrooms, and on the right, a meatball pizza with green olives, onion and mushrooms.

I'm pretty proud of my pizza-making abilities, but then I have been making them for more than 30 years.

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Just got back from [livejournal.com profile] dacubsf's memorial service where we saw, among others, [livejournal.com profile] sf_luke, [livejournal.com profile] castrowoof, [livejournal.com profile] dhbearguy, [livejournal.com profile] boyshapedbox, [livejournal.com profile] downshifft, [livejournal.com profile] backawayslowly, [livejournal.com profile] fuzzygruf, [livejournal.com profile] double_ohsteven, [livejournal.com profile] cruisebear, [livejournal.com profile] beg1n, [livejournal.com profile] tonymorg, [livejournal.com profile] bvig01, [livejournal.com profile] gregorbehr, [livejournal.com profile] kevin_v5, [livejournal.com profile] kitchenbeard, [livejournal.com profile] bearzbub, [livejournal.com profile] arkanjil, [livejournal.com profile] pyrogeoff, [livejournal.com profile] poohbearjim, [livejournal.com profile] enhydrasf, etc. It was a pleasantly simple service, with a reading of Psalm 23, lighting of candles, and people sharing their memories of Jeff. I was tempted to get up and share my own memory of Jeff -- we'd only met twice in real life, but last fall when we were both confined and recuperating, we sometimes talked on bear411, mostly to gripe about a lack of visitors. Since I couldn't really draw an uplifting conclusion from this story, I decided it didn't really merit retelling at a celebration of his life.

After the service, I got in the car with Jack, and what comes on the CD player but Frank Sinatra's version of "September Song," which seemed like a poignant way to end the day.

Well, it’s a long, long time
From May to December
But the days grow short,
When you reach September.
And the autumn weather
Turns the leaves to gray
And I haven’t got time
For the waiting game.

And the days dwindle down
To a precious few . . .
September, November . . .
And these few precious days
I spend with you.
These precious days
I spend with you.

Walking Tall

[identity profile] cruisebear.livejournal.com 2006-01-22 02:36 am (UTC)(link)
It was good to see you this afternoon but we have to stop meeting for these. I was telling Jack it was just like the late 80s and early 90s. Too many memorials for too many good men.

PS
I love your belly.
jon

[identity profile] rootbeer1.livejournal.com 2006-01-22 02:42 am (UTC)(link)
I don't think that belly is ever going to go away!